![]() Chan’s keeping his promises and taking good care of her. Eventually, she was aware that she got such a wonderful life because of Mr. Jiang’s father also told her that “Can fish love birds?”(76) Later she married Chan whom she knew nothing about him before married him, but she finally found herself to love him after her husband got sick. Mohit’s father thought the fact that Jiang was neither Hindu nor Indian would bring shame to their family. The main reason that she could not marry Mohit is because neither family accepted the other as a spouse for their child. Jiang is an old Chinese grandmother, who tells the story of how she fell in love with an Indian boy named Mohit but she was not allowed to marry him. However, in the book One Amazing Thing Divakaruni narrates Jiang’s love story. Many people believe that marriage which is not predicated on love cannot lead to a happy life in the future. There are many stories of successful arranged marriage which show us that arranged marriage can be more successful than what many expect. ![]() Their compatibility may eventually grow into a friendship and a marriage based on love and respect. A common belief system increases the chance that a couple is compatible and helps them build on their relationship and strengthen their marriage bond. It also helps if the man and woman in the arranged marriage share the same views of the roles of husband and wife, as well as how any children will be raised and educated. Arranged marriage often works best if a man and a woman have similar cultural, social, linguistic and religious backgrounds. The intermediaries take many factors into consideration because for couples to have a harmonious life it is important they have similar backgrounds and something in common. Moreover, in countries like India, numerology may also factor in arranged marriage. Family reputation, vocation, wealth, appearance, interest, hobby, religion, and dietary preferences are all factors that are considered. Rosenblum argues that these intermediaries consider many factors in bringing two people together. First, it has many intermediaries, such as parents, relatives, and close friends. Actually, arranging a successful marriage is more difficult than perhaps expected.
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